Sunday, April 10, 2005
Today marks a week + 1 that fhame has left..
things tat happened in the day..
well started the day rather early, was awaken frm my deep slumber by my dad's rude knockin on my rm door. didnt had a choice, jus had to get my butt up & go wash up then together with the rest of my dysfunctional family, set off to do wat we CHINESE folks do for Qing Ming Jie.(yes im chinese but i find it a drag, cant we jus do it without hafin to squeeze & sniff wats 'cologne' the guy besides me is using. i mean there is alot of chinese ppl!!)
so we did the usual thing, set up a table for offerings, pray & pay some respect, waited for my grandparents to 'finish' the food then burn some incense. Had our breakfast nearby after the whole Qing Ming thing.then my dad sent me down to bedok.
was gonna met up with azfar, mazlan & fhame's poly friends. we had planned the week b4 to visit fhame's final resting place. the traffice was killer, there was a long traffic congestion en route to the muslim cemetery. eventually it took us abt 30 mins for a mayb 10mins trip.
when we reach fhame's grave, we noticed some freshly placed flowers, think its frm his family who visited him in the early morning i guess. so we scattered some flowers to beautify the grave then the rest did their prayers during which i jus stood there & reminisce the time me & fhame had, will cherish it forever. b4 we left, we watered the grave & bid farewell to fhame again.
parted ways with fhame's poly friends & we headed to azfar's grandpapa grave. clear the grave abit & the boys did their prayers while me being the chinkee, jus stood there as uuuusual.
left the place ard 1+ & i had to rush back down to tampines for my haach executive spa massage, shall blog it on my next post.